December 2, 2009
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Sex: Why you shouldn’t wait
People keep posting about premarital sex. Their posts are weak. Here are the real reasons you should get laid before you are married.
- You have a 50% chance of contracting an STD in your life time
Sure, you can have sex with a condom. But guess what? It doesn’t prevent STDs all of the time. It can definitely be ineffective in preventing HPV. This is why you’re lucky.
There are emo kids who claim they are “cutters” and have “depression.” It’s the cool thing to have a disease. But these emo kids have FAKE diseases.
If you get a REAL disease from sex (which is statistically more likely than not) you will be MUCH cooler. You will have a real disease to bitch and whine about. Cool points = 1,000,000,999 x infinity.
This risk increases with more partners. The more you bang, the BETTER.
- Sex before marriage makes you more likely to divorce.
Studies show people who have sex before marriage are 50-70% more likely to get divorced.
This is also a bonus because you can be cool like the people on TV. Your child can have a regular
mom and dad… plus step parents!!! What kid wouldn’t want to live in two different houses? Score!!
- More than half of girls who aren’t virgins regret losing their virginity
To have regrets in the back of your mind is a very positive thing. You can call upon latent regrets to reactivate themselves in a time of need. HONEY I need diamonds!!! I need an abortion!! No? *CRY*
The weather is too bad to go to belly dance class tonight. I ate chocolate today.
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Comments (188)
Hahaha Bra-vo! I especially like the random “I ate chocolate” bit.
ahahah wow. xD you know why you shouldn’t wait? well, if you get +20 EXP points for every bang you get, you’re gonna be a professional banger! by the time you actually get married, your future spouse will be like HOLY CRAP, THIS IS THE BEST SEX I’VE EVER HAD~! you’ll get a whole bunch of new skills and gain levels!!
DD
chococlate is good. i want somem but it costs money D:<
@imTHEmeowMIXcat - Thanks that was the most important sentence!!
You’re the best!
@snapeful - Can you get to level 20 with a carrot, kitchen spoon, and Johnny Depp pictures?!
@ShimmerBodyCream - why would you need a spoon? O_o
emo’s claim they have a disease???
@ShimmerBodyCream - LMAO!!!!!!
Lol, your post is so much better than mine. I bow to the ShimmerBodyCream!
those are some solid reasons. nice pic, too. that must have been her Halloween outfit. who dresses like that all the time? psh.
you liked my line about the kit kat, then, eh? chocolate for you. i want some, too. NOW. mmm.
ahahaha
you get 1,000,000,999 x infinity cool points for the post.
pretty lame
NOBODY DOES IT BETTER THAN YOU!!!
:::
@NeverBeBeat - don’t insult me, I took 10minutes out of my life to write that for you.
@ShimmerBodyCream - uz trollan
@NeverBeBeat - No. srs buznazz. My statistics were true. HENCE THE 10 MINUTES!
@ShimmerBodyCream - prz2killminao
@NeverBeBeat - after a couple of shots i will probably understand what you just said
@Mac_Libureet -
premarital secks… more bang for no bucks?
<33333333333333333333333
I loved this post.
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I’m not sure, but I may have detected a hint of sarcasm there. Again, not totally sure…unless you count the sentences that are dripping and oozing with it. Hmm.
luv the sarcasm…or was it not?
roflmao
having sex before marriage doesn’t make you a slut. . .
@Inaheartbeatx - generally it does.
@ShimmerBodyCream - And how do you get that?
@Inaheartbeatx - average of sex partners is us. around 5-10
@ShimmerBodyCream - So, basically having 5 + sex partners is what makes you a slut, . is what your saying? not sex before marriage.
i still don’t entirely agree.I have had sex before marriage, one partner. Current boyfriend, after being together for a year. Does this make me a slut?
@Inaheartbeatx - maybe. I don’t know his sexual history.
@ShimmerBodyCream - we lost our virginity together.
how is sexual history relevant though . . it’s not, at least not for labeling the girl as a slut.
@Inaheartbeatx - if they are both virgins then they probably aren’t dirty in the crotch at least.
@ShimmerBodyCream - which brings me back to the first point, it’s the amount of sexual partners a person has had, not the fact that they have had sex before marriage.
even if they have had multiple partners , if they’ve been safe and take proper ‘precautions’ and still love each other, i don’t think people should be so quick to label someone as a slut or whore or whatever else. just my opinion.
@Inaheartbeatx - if you have multiple partners you are dirty. dirty=slut
“precautions” don’t prevent you from being dirty. you still can get and spread gross diseases.
@ShimmerBodyCream - . . . multiple partners can be two partners. that doesn’t make you a slut. and your not dirty because of the amount of partners you have. it’s the people who you have sex with, and NOT taking proper precautions to prevent diseases.
and taking precautions is what people do to help eliminate that issue. i know it’s not always 100% effective but at least their doing what they can to help prevent spreading diseases. if your married and get diseases, do you still count that as being dirty?
@Inaheartbeatx - Just wait til your married to have sex, be monogamous, and don’t get diseases. Condoms do not eliminate the issue of spreading the disease.
@ShimmerBodyCream - you can have one partner without being married. . just sayin’ .
i said ‘ help eliminate’ . i didn’t say they DO eliminate. they decrease the numbers. but if both people are virgins, or know for a fact that they don’t have diseases they having sex before marriage should be okay. i’m not saying, that either choice is right or wrong. I’m just saying that you shouldn’t say people are sluts for having sex before marriage. being a slut is something else entirely.
@Inaheartbeatx - No. I think they are sluts. And I will say it.
@ShimmerBodyCream - your opinion. & my opinion is , you don’t have good points to support that they are sluts. it just doesn’t make sense.
why does being married all of a sudden make it okay?
@Inaheartbeatx - Because a slut means you are dirty. If you are having sex with multiple partners you have a greater risk of being dirty and probably are since 50% of the population will get an STD.
@ShimmerBodyCream - you can get an STD without being with multiple partners. it takes ONE partner to give you an STD. sex before or after marriage doesn’t make it any different if your partner has an STD already.
@Inaheartbeatx - Thats why both people shouldn’t have sex before marriage. Then that would virtually eliminate STDs
But multiple partners increases your risk drastically.
@ShimmerBodyCream - okay. fair argument. but you can’t help who you love. and if you love someone who has already had sex before marriage, then there’s that possibility there.
it still doesn’t make someone a slut though. you can’t tell me that if you fell in love with someone, but they’ve already had sex & you’re not married , that you’d just let the person go.
@Inaheartbeatx - being a slut and letting someone go is not related. And yes, you can love 50 people and have sex with them. It makes you a slut.
@ShimmerBodyCream - i didn’t say that the person was a slut. they had sex before marriage. maybe it was only one time. if you love the person, and you found that out, would you let them go for that one reason? doubtful.
being a slut generally is, having sex with people you don’t know. random, having multiple partners at once, usually don’t protect yourself. basically , you have sex to make yourself feel better and wanted by guys, even though thats not the case.
@Inaheartbeatx - being a slut is defined as being dirty too. Anyone who risks diseases that is just gross.
@ShimmerBodyCream - you can get diseases from anything. everyday people risk getting diseases. so , does that make us all dirty and sluts? noo.
sleeping around, no protection, with people you just met and multiple partners is whats dirty.
@Inaheartbeatx - You get STDs through sex. Sleeping around even with protection is dirty because you can still get diseases.
@ShimmerBodyCream - I know that. but you said, people who risk getting diseases is gross. STDs aren’t the only disease out there. I was just stating a fact.
if having sex is such a big deal, and the potential of getting a disease is there, why risk it? just stay abstinent then.
@Inaheartbeatx - Be a virgin when you are married. Stay monogamous = disease free.
@ShimmerBodyCream - just because YOU stay monogamous doesn’t guarantee your partner will = still chance of getting diseases.
@Inaheartbeatx - That’s why you both need to be monogamous. You’ll be disease free.
@ShimmerBodyCream - like i said, you can’t guarantee your partner will be. it happens
@Inaheartbeatx - Yep. wait until you’re married, don’t be a slut, and reduce your risks to virtually none.
first blog I read tonight and I have to SEE THIS.
I love you
@ShimmerBodyCream - ’virtually none’ aka. the risk is STILL there. doesn’t matter if your married or not. . like i said, your partner could still have an STD before you get married. could contract one after you get married, because sometimes people do have affairs.
you can’t guarantee to not get one, no matter what you do. but at least you can take precautions like using a condom. but to be guaranteed that you won’t contract a disease, stay abstinent. no more worrying.
@Inaheartbeatx - Ha. I’m not going to dictate everyone with chastity belts. Obviously it’s better healthwise and relationship wise to wait until your married or with one life partner only. I don’t care if people are slutty and screw whoever they want.
@Waltsense -
@ShimmerBodyCream - I’m perfectly happy with my boyfriend. and my relationship is perfectly healthy. I’m not married, and maybe he won’t be my life partner.
Even if you get married, that person isn’t necessarily going to be your life partner. yeah, thats the plan, but it doesn’t always work out that way.
@Inaheartbeatx - Yep. Best just to save it until marriage. Things work out better that way.
@ShimmerBodyCream - Not always. why do you think there is such thing as divorce?! what if you wait till marriage, have sex. and find out the person only married you to get in your pants? like some people who marry young, sometimes thats all the guy or girl wants and thats why they marry the other person.
@Inaheartbeatx - I know. If you don’t want to get a divorce you should wait until marriage to have sex. There is a way less likelihood to get a divorce if the partners are virgins.
@ShimmerBodyCream - why does being a virgin mean that your less likely to get a divorce?
@Inaheartbeatx - Probably because those types of people value marriage more.
@ShimmerBodyCream - being a virgin or not doesn’t define how you value marriage.
@Inaheartbeatx - fact. If you are a virgin when you are married you are much less likely to get divorced.
@ShimmerBodyCream - Source?
@Inaheartbeatx - The Social Organization of Sexuality
Heh. I do appreciate your irreverent style :-p Don’t forget how sex is addicting and so you’ll end up throwing your standards out the window for another fix!
@ShimmerBodyCream - from what i see it’s a book based on a survey. in 1992 . . . times have changed .
and the survey was only taken from 3432 American men and women between the ages of 18 and 59 .. So, for it to be speaking for all 50 states, thats a pretty useless number. Even more useless to be using those facts for all countries .
@Inaheartbeatx - a representative sample is a common scientific method. A survey from the 90s is not irrelevant today. That’s a relatively new study in terms of social surveys.
@ShimmerBodyCream - well, i still think it’s useless. you cant get proper facts from such a small number.
@Inaheartbeatx - Then don’t be a social science major.
@ShimmerBodyCream - thanks for the advice. I don’t plan on it. but how does that accurately represent even half the population of the states? that amount is smaller than the town i live in, which is 5000. and it’s a tiny ass town. that’s barely a good number to represent one state.
@Inaheartbeatx - http://www.alleydog.com/glossary/definition.cfm?term=Representative%20Sample
it won’t be 100% accurate.
@ShimmerBodyCream - i know it won’t be. which is why you can’t always go by these surveys. there not 100% accurate. even IF it were accurate then …it probably be completely different 5 years later every new generation has different morals then the older ones. Which means, that the survey probably isn’t even relevant to our generation.
@Inaheartbeatx - People go by scientific surveys and facts. It is our best form of evidence – using research and surveys. That’s what social sciences are about. There have not been any major moral trends in 5 years. That is an extremely small time frame.
@ShimmerBodyCream - A lot of stuff can change within a year. Like, 9/11 . Or Pearl Harbour. Wars that last only a few years changed things Drastically. We still learn about this stuff in history classes today, just because they didn’t last long doesn’t make them insignificant.
@Inaheartbeatx - having sex before marriage a while into a serious relationship doesn’t make you a slut. but other than that ex..yes it does.
@kkraziemoonn - i know. i’m saying that sex before marriage doesn’t make you a slut. . . . even if it isn’t into a really serious relationship.
sluts sleep around, with multiple people at once, be unprotected and with people they JUST met.
Pure genius…as usual. xx
this is quite excellent!
@snapeful - but if you dont have sex until you are married, wouldnt it be the best sex you ever had anyway?
Diamonds, abortion, and divorce- living the American dream! XD
@Inaheartbeatx - moral trends. not historical events. Why do you care who I think is a slut?
@ShimmerBodyCream - Because you’ve labelled me as a slut basically. Indirectly, but you still have. And because, you’re reasonings for thinking certain people a sluts don’t make sense, at least not to me.
I think I’m in love with you.
Wait, you don’t have STDs, do you?
sarcasm
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rec-ing it :3
@Dare2BDiferentt - only the curable ones <3
@Inaheartbeatx - Yes, to me you are a slut. So what’s the problem?
lol most randomest thing I’ve read.
@ShimmerBodyCream - Alright then, we’re good.
<4
@ionekoa - Not necessarily, there are going to be horrible sex-ers out there regardless. Also it’ll probably be really awkward especially if both people are virgins.
@snapeful - Summation: Which hole does it go in?
@ShimmerBodyCream - LAWLS. “that’s my peeing hole….”
@ShimmerBodyCream - the problem is that i’m not a slut. If i started saying shit about you that I assumed / thought about you , you probably wouldn’t just sit there and take it.
i think your labeling people without any solid support. The reasonings behind why you think that I & many other people are sluts is ridiculous & your just being ignorant.
@Inaheartbeatx - I already told you why. Because having sex with multiple partners is dirty.
@Inaheartbeatx - So what do you think a slut is?
@ShimmerBodyCream - yeah, for some girls alright. you still have no reason behind why I am a slut. I’ve been with one person, Kthanks.
@ShimmerBodyCream - I’ve already told you too. . . . someone who sleeps around with multiple partners at once, no protection, with just any guy who is willing.
@Inaheartbeatx - I also said it was having multiple partners as opposed to one.
@ShimmerBodyCream - yeah . . so how am i a slut? i agree with you on the multiple partner fact, but not if its only a small amount and not if they have used protection and all that kind of stuff.
@Inaheartbeatx - small amount? So after a certain amount you think girl is a slut?
@ShimmerBodyCream - thats what you think too . . . if i recall ” 5 – 10 partners ” . . . so any amount before 5 is okay? if your saying that any amount of partners is being a slut, then everyone in the world is a slut by that statement.
and yeah, if it gets to be ridiculous, BUT I also said other reasons that go along with that.
@Inaheartbeatx - you said protection too. So if someone uses condoms, sex doesn’t count?
@ShimmerBodyCream - I never said it didn’t count. sex is sex. But at least there taking precautions to help avoid diseases , which would mean that they probably care about their bodies … which probably means that
if anything
, it’s a one night stand. their probably not sleeping around with a bunch of people all the time , at the same time.
@Inaheartbeatx - So the definition of a slut in your eyes is one who is not taking precautions to prevent diseases and someone with multiple partners?
@ShimmerBodyCream - it’s more relevant than your definition at least. & how many times to I have to explain it to you. someone who is just going around having sex with any person they can, throwing themselves at any guy that is willing, not caring about their body, not using protection, having multiple partners at one time.
@Inaheartbeatx - I was just making sure you agreed with me so I didn’t put words in your mouth. So you do agree with what I said above, right?
@ShimmerBodyCream - ehh , i agree with my own definition, yours is a vague definition of what i’ve said.
@Inaheartbeatx - so what if someone throws themselves* at any guy but uses condoms, is that okay?
@ShimmerBodyCream - no, but that doesn’t make them a slut. yeah, obviously it’s not ‘proper’. I have friends who were like that I know people who are like that, yeah people look down on them for sleeping around . . but i still don’t think that it makes them a slut. honestly, i don’t even know why people care so much about other peoples sex lives anyways. It’s not affecting them in any way, so who gives a fuck what they’ve been doing. Unless of course it’s your SO then obviously your going to want to know that they don’t have diseases and all that stuff.
@Inaheartbeatx - ok. but sleeping around without a condom with any guy does make them a slut?
@ShimmerBodyCream - not if it’s only a one time thing, and they know the guy is disease free or whatever, yeah it is also improper and not safe, but it still doesn’t make them a slut. yeah, if they do it all the time, with multiple people at once. i think that makes them
more
of a slut then what you define them as.
none of this has to even do with the original point anymore though. which was ” if you have sex before marriage your a slut ” . . . you called me a slut, yet you still have no reasons to support it. & subject keeps changing . . .
@Inaheartbeatx - It sounds like you deem someone a slut based upon the risk they are taking. Same with me. I don’t really see the difference.
@ShimmerBodyCream - you’ve sort of changed your idea then. because like i just stated, the first point you made was . . . “if you have sex before marriage your a slut” . . . i’ve had sex before marriage, but i was protected, we were both virgins. I don’t see any risk in that. if we had waited till marriage it would have been the same deal. we would have still both been virgins, used a condom. so why’s it matter that we had it before marriage? . . .
@Inaheartbeatx - Statistically you’ll have a higher rate of divorce. and if you have sex with other people who aren’t virgins you will be prone to disease. I didn’t change my idea. Your idea of a slut is someone who is putting themselves at risk. Mine is the same – all the way back to my original comments.
@ShimmerBodyCream - what if i said i don’t plan on getting married? i don’t understand how having sex before marriage means that your more likely to get a divorce. and obviously if you have sex with someone who isn’t a virgin that risk is there, but if you both get checked regularly and know you don’t have any diseases then whats the problem? even if you do there is stuff you can do to help prevent spreading it. .
@Inaheartbeatx - Men can’t get checked for the most common STD. Condoms don’t prevent the most common STD, HPV very well. Therefore, there is a huge problem. You can still get an STD.
@ShimmerBodyCream - not if you were both virgins.
@Inaheartbeatx -
f you have sex with someone who isn’t a
virgin that risk is there, but if you both get checked regularly and
know you don’t have any diseases then whats the problem?
you said if they both weren’t virgins.
@ShimmerBodyCream - i said
someone
meaning it could be just one of you. but if they’re both virgins then there is no problem. So are you saying there is no point in getting checked since men can’t get checked for it? If both the girl and the guy get the vaccines necessary to prevent it then the risk is lowered, so i still don’t see a problem .
@ShimmerBodyCream - “But HPV usually goes away on its own, without causing health problems” yeah, it wouldn’t be nice to have it. but clearly it’s not as horrible as people make it out to be. Yes, it can lead to other diseases and cancers but thats why you get checked, because those things doctors are able to test for.
@Inaheartbeatx - Someone or both. Either way you didn’t say both virgins.
There is no vaccine to completely prevent HPV.
And you are talking about risks being lowered.
My definition of slut and yours is the same. Higher risked activities.
@Inaheartbeatx - No. Doctors can’t test for HPV in men.
@snapeful - that doesnt negate the fact that it would by default be the best sex you’ve ever had. upon eating my first hamburger i cant say “awww ive had better.”
@ionekoa - assuming you’ll never have sex again for the rest of your life? yeeeeeeeeeeeeahhhh, sure.
@snapeful - snapeful advocates a side piece!
@ShimmerBodyCream - oh hell yeah!
@ionekoa - oh oh ! i have another one. you can have imaginaryyyy sexx
D like those harlequin novels or just fapping to a WoW pixel character LULZ.
@snapeful - negative, you confuse the best sex you have ever had with the best sex you ever will have. if both parties are virgins then they will be learning and growing together as opposed to coming together with their own unique and potentially unmet expectations.
@ShimmerBodyCream - I didn’t say they can test for HPV in men. i said they can test for diseases caused by HPV. are you saying that you aren’t going to do anything in your life that has risks along with it? . . . you take risks everyday, i don’t know why this is any different. anything you do has risks , its a matter of taking proper precautions to help prevent those risks from actually happening.
@Inaheartbeatx - Exactly I agree with you. Take proper precautions. That’s why wait until you’re married to have sex and through marriage and health your risks will be greatly reduced.
besides calling me a fuckin douche and a pussy, ive gotta give you props for your bluntness and keeping it real. Seriously, no joke, no sarcasm, i respect you’re bold opinions. Great blog on pre-marital sex!
@ionekoa - unless he still thinks your pee hole is your vagina.. LOL
NEGATIVE, HOUSTON. NEGATIVE READ!
i liked the picture lol… awful arent i ? Nice post
@ShimmerBodyCream - Okay, yes i suppose waiting till marriage would be the best way. But obviously not everyone is going to do that, so they can take the proper precautions that we all learn throughout school and such. The risks can be greatly reduced by doing that as well.
@Inaheartbeatx - yep
Exactly. =]
I do want to be a psychologist as well as a writer. <3
@snapeful - if he cant learn that then maybe you shouldnt be marrying off the short bus. the special helmet shoiuld be a dead give away
@ionekoa – yeah i’m definitely gonna marry someone with a penis
maybe when it’s legal, and i can grow a penis, and start liking guys. why so srs?
Hahah. Genius smart [ass], I think I LOVE you. But let’s not have premarital sex.
;D
@ShimmerBodyCream - If it took ten minutes of your life to post this, then surely it would take you another ten to post links to where you got your bogus facts from.
@Chemical_Bindings - the STD stat is from the CDC the other two are from the book The social organization of sexuality. There ya go.
damn, i just noticed the MC Chris hells ya
This cracked. me. up.
Wow!
Use lots and lots of condoms! Better yet, layer it. LOL
…you sound like you’re assuming that what you choose for yourself is whats best for everyone else.
@off_in_wonderland - No. Sex before marriage is best for everyone else because they won’t get STDs and they won’t have such a high risk of divorce.
Well, I read this and I’ve taken my time thinking about it. I think you’re just being sarcastic about the whole thing.
Honestly, I think you’re a fool. I would never marry someone I did not know that I am sexually compatible with. I’ve had good sex and BAD sex and I’m not going to marry someone and end up having bad sex for the rest of my life. It may have it’s downsides but there are also upsides to it. Do you really want to be with someone forever and have no idea how to please them? It’s more of an issue for the guys I know, since we are expected to perform and let the ladies just do nothing.
That’s another thing. Sex is on uneven ground.
Anyways, if I pegged you wrong I’m sorry.
However, if you’re a fanatical christian, god-worshipping, back-assed ethereal cock sucker I hope that you either die or wake up someday wondering why you’ve been so engrossed with fantastic stories about some guy that never could have happened.
Thank you and goodbye. =)
@EspressoMidnight - Then fuck a lot of people and get STDs? I don’t care.
@ShimmerBodyCream - You’re pretty polar on this huh? There is no middle ground for you.
That’s alright though. You probably fucked up a long time ago, lost your virginity, got pregnant and contracted and STD at the same time.
Go live your sexless, boring life KTHNX.
@EspressoMidnight - No. I’m not a slut.
analysis fail.
have fun spreading cancer.
@ShimmerBodyCream - oh. i guess i didn’t understand that this post wasn’t sarcastic then. lol. sorry =)
@off_in_wonderland - It is sarcastic.
….sex = good?
Uh… no comment
Very nice.
I dont think she was referring to people having sex before marriage as sluts, so much as she was replying they were ignorant to the statistics why…not to….hahaha in an inadvertent way. Love it.
@Vampira_tx - wow someone actually comprehended what I said. yay.
Lol, omg! :p
ahaha. nice.
Practice makes perfect. Simple as that.
The only type of sex I will ever have before marriage is one with a condom. And one I like of course. Hehe! But I like this post.
Very, how they say, informative.
@EspressoMidnight - It’s lame to assume that you will know how sex will be for marriage by having sex beforehand. First of all, the setting is different, so the way it happens before marriage does not necessarily equate to the way it will happen after marriage. Secondly, if you plan to be married for life, that’s a long time, and people change over time. Your hottie might like sex the way you do before marriage, but five or ten years down the road, with different careers, kids in tow, and who knows what else, it may not go so easy. In other words, saying you need sex before marriage to see if you’re sexually compatible is totally bogus because it assumes an unchanging life. People change, relationships change, and to make it through a lifetime of marriage requires dealing with differences and change, including changes in sexual habits and preferences. Having sex before marriage has no correlation with being able to deal with change.
Ha, I like the last 2 sentences best.
1. Having sex with more than one person ups your chances of getting an STD.
Statistically, yes. But what if the guy you marry and end up having sex with has an STD, and the 10 guys someone else does doesn’t? Sucks for you eh?
Plus, you can’t use the argument that it ups chances. Going outside increases our risk of skin cancer from sun damage. Sure, that’s why we use sunblock (the metaphoric equivalent to condoms). But hey, every now and then it doesn’t work! So I guess we just can’t go outside anymore, can we? Flawed argument.
2. The reason people who don’t have sex before marriage are less likely to divorce is because they’re more religious, and feel tied to the person they’re married to even if they can’t stand them anymore. It’s a matter of not using your own personal choice, not anything else. It’s not like there’s a little clock in the back of your head that counts down the times you have sex with different people to the jackpot, where you get a divorce. Flawed argument.
3. Some girls who lose their virginity before marriage regret it? Maybe. But all the brainwashed girls who wait until marriage because their parents say so and not out of personal choice are too naive to feel regret about it, so you can’t really use that. And I bet people who wait probably sometimes regret it too if and when their hubby is horrid in bed. Semi-flawed argument.
@alexem - Well you aren’t 100% likely to get an STD from sex. So why even use condoms? Your argument is flawed. You don’t get STDs from sex everytime so you shouldn’t use condoms.
@bananaleaf_soapbox - I’m going to start by laughing at you. I did a little research on you and found out you’re a Christian. So HAH.
Right here I had a long post that argued my point and took apart everything you said as ignorant BS but I realized something. It’s not worth it! So I’ll just leave you with this. You’re an idiot and your very beliefs are fundamentally flawed. KTHNX <3
@NeverBeBeat - how is that lame if that’s the truth! you are the lame one since you are a dude.
@rockstarbaby07080 - because you’re a fucking idiot
@NeverBeBeat - actually, you’re the fucking idiot, punk bitch
@rockstarbaby07080 - you obviously don’t know what sarcasm is
After reading through the comments, I still don’t think I really get it…
so, a slut is somebody who is dirty, in your opinion.
so which of these scenarios is a slut?
1) a person who has multiple sex partners (ten, let’s say) and does not contract a disease.
2) a person who has one sex partner, and were both virgins
3) a person who has had only one sex partner, Person A is a virgin, but person B is not, person B has contracted an STD, giving A and B both STDs.
4) a person who was born with an STD (their mother had it when she gave birth because… who knows why, not important, babies are pure.) then waited till their wedding night, but had unprotected sex, because it’s “okay” when one is married, so now they both have partners.
also, if someone never ever gets married, does that subject them to never knowing what sex is like? because that would be awful.
@EspressoMidnight - Seriously, I would like to hear your rebuttal.
loved this post
Agree with the Third one. I think I kind of regret it now.
haha lov this
what’s wrong with you? haha. pretty sure most emo kids don’t claim to have a disease
and pretty sure most christians don’t comment quite the same way or post with quite the same venom as you, so it’s a wee bit odd you put a Luke verse up on your christmas blog 
@GaugeCheck@revelife - I know. I’m not like most people. This is why I am amazing. God loves me.
your statistics are a bunch of bullshit.
@yewskinnymuhfukas - actually, no they’re not. read a book. be enlightened.
MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCED AND IT IS NOT FUN! lies.
All that might be true for your vag virg, but you can ass fuck ’til the cows come home!
@NikBv - It doesn’t surprise me you’d put assfucking and cows in the same sentence.
@ShimmerBodyCream - VERBALLY BERATE ME IF YOU WANT, BUT FOR GOD SAKES LEAVE THE POOR COWS ALONE!
All you can really do is be ylsrueof, you never know if he likes you too but maybe he’s just really good at hiding it. It’s happened to me before and all i did was spend time with my sister and her friends and i kept being myself. But i tried to focus on him thinking i’m a good person and friend, next thing i knew he and i got really close, i waited a week or two after out friendship bloomed to confess my crush on him and it turns out he felt the same. Basically all you gotta do is make him you’re friend first then after that happens wait a while and then confess. Good luck! Hope i helped!